Personalized Intimacy Coaching with Claire Rumore

My work is for people who are CURIOUS ABOUT and even HUNGRY FOR exploring, cultivating, and fulfilling their deepest sexual selves (in or out of relationship) in a whole-bodied context (mind: body: spirit)

From $260* per hour

* a small number of sliding scale coaching sessions are available on a case-by-case basis. Contact me for more details.

Intimacy Coaching

Achieve a profound self-awareness and self-love.
Integrate clarity of your personal desires, needs, wants, and preferences.
Accomplish crystal clear boundaries and communication skills.
Enjoy happier and more harmonious relationships.

Intimacy coaching sessions are dedicated to exploring your sexual history, beliefs, attitudes, and more. Using the MEBES model (Mental, Emotional, Body, Energetic, Spiritual framework) of intimacy coaching, we’ll gather insight into where you’re at, where you’ve been, and which direction you’d like to go in as individuals or as a couple.
Our objective by the end of the session will be to clarify what’s working in your erotic + relational life, what could be working better, and what steps can be taken to empower you in that direction.

rates and duration

First Session ~

$380/90 minutes – BOOK NOW

Subsequent sessions ~

$260/hour – BOOK NOW
$380/90 minutes – BOOK NOW
$500/120 minutes – BOOK NOW

Prepaid packages ~

$1150 for 5 hours – BOOK NOW
$2000 for 10 hours – BOOK NOW

BOOK YOUR FIRST SESSION WITH ME NOW

Gain a deep understanding of how to increase intimacy in relationship

If you’re not sure where to start with intimacy coaching, we can start here:

Ask Me Anything/Tell Me Anything Starter Session

$500

This session is 2 hours dedicated entirely to us exploring and unpacking whatever is alive for you in the realms of intimacy, sexuality, fantasy, erotic exploration, and more.

• Are there topics you find you have very few people (or perhaps no one) to talk to about, and a personal confidant would be useful?
• Are there themes you feel self-conscious or insecure to bring up and you could use an ear?
• Is there something that feels shameful or burdensome that you’d like to transform to a more joyful experience?

Let’s talk, explore, unfurl, and expand – unscripted, raw and real, with the aim of offering you alternative perspectives, practices and approaches! Transformation, inner peace, and true satisfaction are possible. I’m here to hold your hand and support you to becoming and expressing more of who you truly are.

Additionally, all of my training as an erotic educator, intimacy coach, Tantric counselor, and somatic + clinical sexologist are at your disposal. Feel free to ask questions of any sort related to these topics.

Note: I’m not a medical practitioner so I won’t at any point be offering diagnoses or medical advice. 🤓

BOOK YOUR FIRST Ask Me Anything / Tell Me Anything Starter Session NOW

To begin our journey together

Once I receive your intake form, we have the option to set up a brief discovery call. This call will help us determine compatibility and establish what your visions and intentions are for our work together, as well as discuss logistics, rates, etc. Our next step will be to schedule a time for our first session.

All first sessions are approximately 90 minutes. Subsequent sessions are 60+ minutes (unless a longer time frame is requested).

I will send you an email with primer questions a day or two before our first session (and each additional session) to help both of us prepare.

Ready to relate to others from a place of self-love and immense well being?

What have you been told or been telling yourself your whole life about sex, your body, your desires, your erotic nature may not be the actual truth or your actual truth.

There are stories and experiences that have been lurking in your subconscious, negatively impacting your relationships, including your most important relationship—your relationship with yourself.

As a counselor who focuses on the integration of sexuality, spirituality, and self-love, I help you uncover and ultimately integrate the thoughts, beliefs, traumas, and emotions that have been UNCONSCIOUSLY creating your sexual attitudes and experiences, as well as affecting your relationships: ALL of them; keeping you from the intimate happiness, harmony, and deep abiding love that is possible.

I help you identify and transform previous limitations of guilt and shame in your subconscious into confidence and relaxation in your everyday experience. I also help you reclaim your sensual and sexual confidence by shifting your attitudes and beliefs, moving you to greater depths of compassion, understanding and turn-on.

You become the director once again of the movie that is your greatest life! You also reclaim and renew your relationship with your “Self” as a sacredly sexual being.

I Pair Intimacy Coaching With Being Your Anam Cara

The words “Anam Cara” are a Celtic term for “Soul Friend.”

Soul friend is the role I see myself playing for you above all others. A soul friend is someone with whom you can talk about anything. They withhold judgment and criticism and at most would offer constructive feedback, only if you asked for it. You feel truly heard and understood in the presence of a soul friend. You can trust them with your tender parts and you know they will honor your boundaries.

Additionally, a soul friend sees the best in you and focuses on supporting you to develop more of your truest, best, most authentic self.

A soul friend is with you for dark nights and bright days, and shares an empathic resonance with you for either and both.

A soul friendship ultimately cuts across all convention and category; it is one of the more unique, even rare, experiences in life.

I see it as a precious honor to be your soul friend during your journey of erotic evolution. We all need a soul friend, especially when we are exploring new and vulnerable parts of ourselves.

I invite you to start this journey of deep exploration now

“Claire is living life, full of experiences, and if you are lucky enough to work with her, you will find yourself inspired simply by her spirit... let alone the wisdom she speaks so fluently.”

"Working with Claire has altered the course of my life. She has gracefully created opportunities for me to trust in a deep shadow process by pointing to the places that were wanting to be seen within myself. Skillfull, deeply caring and makes room for all of myself without bias. I’m touched and grateful for having Claire alongside me on this journey where she’s helped to open the door to exploring this profound and challenging work without interfering with my natural evolution. Amazing blessing!"

Claire Rumore provided me with a safe, energetically clean, and open container to explore challenging topics. With her help, I was able to challenge beliefs that were no longer serving me, with vulnerability, openness, and strength. I highly recommend her coaching, and her facilitation to anyone who is ready to go to their next level.

“Claire is living life, full of experiences, and if you are lucky enough to work with her, you will find yourself inspired simply by her spirit... let alone the wisdom she speaks so fluently.”

Working with Claire through the Shakti Shiva Academy and also counseling one on one with her has altered the course of my life. She has gracefully created opportunities for me to trust in a deep shadow process by pointing to the places that were wanting to be seen within myself. Skillfull, deeply caring and makes room for all of myself without bias. I’m touched and grateful for having Claire alongside me on this journey where she’s helped to open the door to exploring this profound and challenging work without interfering with my natural evolution. Amazing blessing!

"Each time I work with Claire, she provides me with simple, practical tools that I can incorporate almost immediately and continue in my regular routine. She has helped me determine how to determine where I should apply my focus to improve my life. I can't recommend her enough."

"I have experienced intense healing and insight from my sessions working with Claire. She has facilitated the work with the highest levels of care, respect, and commitment. Claire is a wise, intuitive mentor and each session with her has felt like a small journey into a larger one. She is an amazing woman with a rich range of knowledge, and working with her has been a healing and empowering experience that has helped me change old patterns and remember my way home. Thank you so much Claire for holding me with so much compassion during our sessions. It`s really been transformative!"

"I so love Claire's sense of humor, exquisite playfulness and outside of the box thinking. She is so easy to work with and a joy to be around; nonetheless, she carries so much innate wisdom and her insights are spot on. Claire embodies so beautifully both the masculine and the feminine energy, and the exercises that we've done together have brought so much clarity and softness in my life! She is definitely an extraordinary coach who I highly recommend anyone to work with and have in their life!!"

Claire has opened a whole new world to me through her classes, our coaching time together and her deep spirituality. She has the most wonderful combination of organizational ability, presentation skills and depth of caring in her courses; as well as being a kind, accepting and discerning spiritual guide in my personal journey of discovery. She has helped me explore “the dark night of my soul”, and share its fears, shame and dysfunction. Then take in all of this and become a more, compassionate, spiritual and sexual being. I have unearthed and shared with her things I’ve never told a living soul. Through her profound empathy, we have come to better understand the forces which have helped shape me and work toward a fuller love of myself and others. Surely, she is the mistress of “all that’s best of Dark and Bright.”

Claire is an amazing coach and facilitator. I took several workshops and sessions with her and am always stunned by her warm and friendly personality and her professional skills. Claire has a deep understanding of the human heart and soul – and combines it with her unique way of openness, kindness, empathy, respect – and finally her way of always bringing joy and ease into the world, even when talking about very deep and touching topics. I can strongly recommend working with Claire!

"I was blown away by Claire's ability to hold space for the group. Her presence and grounded energy quickly made everyone feel at ease, in a context which can be uncomfortable for some. Her knowledge of the subject matter is evident, you can tell she walks her talk! Her delivery of the information has supported me in awakening clarity and deep insights which surpassed my expectations. I would highly recommend any course that Claire facilitates to anyone interested in this subject matter."

Claire has been an amazing and helpful practitioner. Specifically important for me is how accepting and easy-going she is in the presence of speaking into sensitive, intimate and vulnerable areas. I felt seen, heard and empathized with. Claire also has a keen capacity to sort through the myriad of tangled confusions to help zero in on the thread to pull. She was able to offer me very specific tools, new vantage points, and resources to work with. I'm still employing those practices now and with great gratitude.

Claire Rumore has been an excellent coach over a number of years. Her skills as a facilitator go far beyond her extensive training, and her wisdom is well beyond her years. Her energy and intuition are impressive and often surprising. I recommend Claire with much enthusiasm.

Claire is a lovely companion for inner journeys. She has facilitated and joined me in some of the deepest dives that I have ever experienced; even counting my 15 years of workshops and training courses. She is naturally curious and motivated to grow her own gifts, and then she is profoundly generous with sharing her wisdom. I count myself uncountably lucky to have her presence in my life to help me smooth out some of these sharp chapters. Her demeanor is both patient yet probing, accepting yet anticipatory such that I can reach deeper levels if I keep feeling into them. I know that I am a more well-rounded human because of the time I have spent with her.

Claire’s work with sexuality and the Shadow had immediate and liberating effects over my sexuality. However, I was awestruck by the magnitude and depth of its effects in other areas of my life: I have become a better professional and my income has increased. *I have been working with consciousness development and the unconscious mind for 22 years already. Despite that,* Claire was able to develop my consciousness in truly innovative ways. Without any moral judgment whatsoever, Claire is the perfect balance between knowledge, wisdom and love. She is able to deliver that which I consider to be the ultimate criteria of the validity of a given work: immediate and concrete results.

“I’m always in awe of Claire’s embodied wisdom and in-depth understanding especially of sexual shadow work. As a facilitator, she uses her own experience, the experiences of her clients as well as her strong knowledge of the topic at hand to educate, encourage and inspire deeper reflection and healing in a way that is truly respectful of her audience and fully in alignment with the ethos of the late Shakti Malan. Thank you, Claire, for your sacred work!”

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